Are you looking for new techniques to relieve your stress and relax? Here are Esme’s top relaxation tips:
✔️ Take a break – Relaxation doesn’t have to take up lots of your time. Just stepping away from something stressful for a few minutes or taking time away from your normal routines and thoughts can give you enough space and distance to feel calmer.
• Read a book or a magazine, even if it’s only for a few minutes.
• Run yourself a bath, watch a film, play with a pet or try out a new recipe.
• Try active relaxation – Relaxation doesn’t have to mean sitting still – gentle exercise can help you relax too. Take a walk, going at your own pace. You might choose to go for a longer walk, but even a few minutes of walking can help you feel relaxed. Look for a class you’d like to try, such as yoga, Pilates or gentle stretching.
✔️ Focus on your breathing – Learning to breathe more deeply can help you feel a lot calmer.
• Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth. Try to keep your shoulders down and relaxed, and place your hand on your stomach – it should rise as you breathe in and fall as you breathe out.
• Count as you breathe. Start by counting ‘one, two, three, four’ as you breathe in and ‘one, two, three, four’ as you breathe out. Try to work out what’s comfortable for you.
✔️ Get creative – Getting in touch with your artistic side can help you feel more calm and relaxed.
• Try painting, drawing, making crafts, playing a musical instrument, dancing, baking or sewing.
• Try not to worry too much about the finished product – just focus on enjoying yourself.
✔️ Spend time in nature – Spending time outside and in green spaces can be great for your physical and mental health.
• Take a walk in the countryside or through a local park, taking time to notice trees, flowers, plants and animals you see on the way.
✔️ Listen to music – Music can relax you, connect you to your emotions and distract you from worrying thoughts.
• Listen to your favourite songs. Turn up the volume and dance or sing along, or put your headphones on and close your eyes.
• Really listen to the music. Can you pick out different instruments? Can you hear a drum beat or a certain rhythm? Focus on the music, and let other thoughts fade away.
✔️ Do a tech check – Technology can be great for helping you feel connected, but if you’re using it a lot then it can contribute to making you feel busy and stressed. Taking a break (even a short one) can help you relax.
• Try turning your phone off for an hour (or a whole day if you’re feeling brave).
• Step away from the TV, or have an evening where you don’t check emails or social networks. Use the time to do something relaxing.
✔️ Picture yourself somewhere serene – Even if you can’t physically get away, your imagination can transport you to somewhere you feel calm.
• Think of somewhere relaxing and peaceful. You might choose a memory of somewhere you’ve been, or a place you have imagined.
• Close your eyes, and think about the details of this place. What does it look like – what kind of colours and shapes can you see? Can you hear any sounds? Is it warm or cool? Let your mind drift and your body relax.